你总是说我一直依赖你 ，而你一直希望我独立。。
可你知道吗？当我还想依赖你的时候，也是一种幸福。
因为，有这么一天当我不在依赖你时，我能独立，未必是一件好事。

从现在开始，我会学着去独立，再也不会依赖你了。
你放心。。

或许这样也好，那我这一生就不会欠你太多。。

我一定要加油。。。

不要为了寂寞去恋爱！！！

每次听了阿桑的那首《寂寞在唱歌》，总是 有一种莫名的伤感，甚至会让人流泪。这首歌唱进了我们许多人的心里，打动了我们。天黑了，孤独又慢慢割着，有人的心又开始疼了，爱很远了很久没再见了，就 这样竟然也能活着。在物质生活丰富的现在，我想我们最害怕的就是寂寞。因为寂寞，我们很痛苦，因为要摆脱痛苦，我们需要一个伴，因为有了伴，我们也就恋爱 了。可是，这样的恋爱会幸福吗?

不要为了寂寞去恋爱，时间是个魔鬼，天长 日久，如果你是个多情的人，即使不爱对方，到时候也会产生感情，到最后你怎么办？这样的感情如同鸡肋，嚼之无味，弃之可惜。不管多大多老，不管家人朋友怎 么催，都不要随便对待，婚姻不是打牌，重新洗牌要付出巨大代价。感情的事基本上没有谁对谁错，他（她）要离开你，总是你有什么地方不能令他满足，回头想想 过去在一起的日子，总是美好的。这样只会让自己或别人很受伤，想想就会心痛。

不要为了寂寞去恋爱，爱情是真善美的象征，人间的天 音，无法挣脱的神网，情不自禁的吸引。寂寞的人是脆弱的，看着那些恋爱中的人，自然是心生羡慕，但是只有遇到了真正的情感上的依靠，这样的爱才是健康长久 的。爱其实很简单，正如香港歌手谢庭锋所唱， 因为爱，所以爱。遇到了值得我们好好去爱的人，再去谈一场轰轰烈烈的爱不是很好吗？

让自己幸福的10条秘决

1.不抱怨生活：幸福的人并不比其他人拥有更多的幸福，而是因为他们对待生活和困难的态度不同，他们从不问“为什么”，而是问“为的是什么”，他们不会在“生活为什么对我如此不公平”的问题上做过长时间的纠缠，而是努力去想解决问题的方法。


2.不贪图安逸：幸福的人总是离开让自己感到安逸的生活环境，幸福有时是离开了安逸生活才会积累出的感觉，从来不求改变的人自然缺乏丰富的生活经验，也就难感受到幸福。


3.感受友情：广交朋友并不一定带来幸福感，而一段深厚的友谊才能让你感到幸福，友谊所衍生的归属感和团结精神让人感到被信任和充实，幸福的人几乎都拥有团结人的天才。


4.勤奋工作：专注于某一项活动能够刺激人体内特有的一种荷尔蒙的分泌，它能让人处于一种愉悦的状态。研究者发现，工作能发掘人的潜能，让人感到被需要和责任，这给予人充实感。


5.降低负面影响：少接受些有关灾难、谋杀或其他的负面消息，这样，无形中就保持了对世界的一份美好乐观的态度。


6.生活的理想：幸福的人总是不断地为自己树立一些目标，通常我们会重视短期目标而轻视长期目标，而长期目标的实现更能给我们带来幸福感受，你可以把你的目标写下来，让自己清楚地知道为什么而活。


7.给自己动力：通常人们只有通过快乐和有趣的事情才能够拥有轻松的心情，但是幸福的人能从恐惧和愤怒中获得动力，他们不会因困难而感到沮丧。


8.规律的生活：幸福的人从不把生活弄得一团糟，至少在思想上是条理清晰的，这有助于保持轻松的生活态度，他们会将一切收拾得有条不紊，整齐而有序的生活让人感到自信，也更容易感到满足和快乐。


9.珍惜时间：幸福的人很少体会到被时间牵着鼻子走的感觉，另外，专注还能使身体提高预防疾病的能力.


10. 心怀感激：抱怨的人把精力全集中在对生活的不满之处，而幸福的人把注意力集中在能令他们开心的事情上，所以，他们更多地感受到生命中美好的一面，因为对生活的这份感激，所以他们才感到幸福。

I am on leave and I have not done any revision yet, lazing around. Well, I better start early cos I didnt cscored well for my assignments, therefore i need to work hard to exam. :(
On my first day of leave I stay home and slept for 12 hrs!! Cool rite..keke...! And I did a little shopping went to china-town, OCEAN to get my body lotion and shampoo. As I go without body lotion for week cos past few weeks were madness, damn stressed up with work and school assignments. NOw, everything is over, done with assignments and I am looking for new job. keke..
Second day of leave, I went to NTU with mr wee for his interview, he is confident of getting what he want. That's good. Darling alll the best. We had lunch at one of the canteens. Wah.. that canteen has a nice environment but the food wasnt that tasty and the price is a little ex for campus.
On the third day, saturday, I attended min jie's weeding at ST ANDREW CATHEDRAL. Wah.. that's a very grand, romantic wedding with hundreds of guest's blessings. Congradulatons!
As for today, Stay home this morning and watch tv. After that went to metro to buy my sandals as for past few weeks I hasnt got the time to do so just happened that metro was having a store wide 20% so I got it at $19.90. After that, mr wee and I had cheapest and most delicious western food at one of the kopitiams at hougang mall. BEST western food in houagng and the price is reasonable. People stay hougang area should go and try it out.
Okie.. as for tomorrow I am going to study at MAc with Mr wee as his last paper is on wednesday. That's all for now!
TO be continue..


HOUGANG cheapest western food stall


Fish and Chips $5.00


Gotit at metro @ $19.90

天空是舞蹈的国度，落叶喜欢在上面舞蹈。打着旋，不时发出“沙沙”的伴奏声。

在树下，抬头望，一片片树叶换上了秋的舞裙，仿佛一个个小小精灵。它们点缀着大树，让大树变得颇有生机，显出一种青春和快乐。多美丽啊！

也许，落叶不如春日争艳的百花，予人以温馨；也不如夏日里生长的草木，予人以活力。相反，在落叶飞舞的世界中，常常会感到一丝莫名的诗意的忧伤，会不禁意间发现晶莹的泪滴伴随落叶而漫舞

叶的离开,是风的追求 ,还是树的不挽留

终于,叶还是随风而去.........

春天,叶来到了 树的身边,叶对树说:'我永远陪在你身边好吗 ?'

树说:'好啊' 他们会心的笑了.
　
夏天,叶与树好快 乐的在一起,叶感到她是世界上最幸福的了 ,可是,树渐渐觉得:叶是快乐的,她应该去追求 更广阔的世界,而自己,什么也给不了...

秋天,风的到来打破了原有的安宁 ,风是喜欢叶的,他对叶说:' 你愿意跟我走吗?我会带 你 去世界上任何一个角落,你会快乐的, 我保证.' 叶说不,'我要和树在一起.' 而树面对风 的到来,却动摇了,'叶应该跟他去的'树这么想着'风会让 叶更快乐的.'于是,树冷漠的对叶说:'你走吧 ,我早就已经厌烦你了.' 面对突如其来的打击,叶震惊了 ,'为什么,你不要我了吗?'而树却依然冷 漠...........

然而,树错了,离开树的叶渐渐枯萎,她忘不了对于树的依赖 ,终于她还是放弃了风, 选择静静的落下地面,等待死亡.......

冬天,树的眼泪化成水, 变成云,结成雪,覆盖了叶的凋黄.......

叶,原谅树的懦弱好吗, 树不明白快乐的原因啊...............

第二年春天,叶来到树的身边 ,叶对树说:'我永远陪在你身边好吗?

。。。我在等待。。
可我， 不知道我在等待些什么。。
一个没有目标的等待。。。

夜晚
我一个人歌唱
唱给自己听
唱给月亮听

我在等待什么呢。。。？

I am so tired!! I need to sleep! GOD I haven been slping for past two day im damn tired! Lots of deadline, work stress. I am going mad.. ..
All I want now is my bed. And I cant cos I still have to rush for my Statistic!! DAmn it and it not easy!

说好了 不回头 不想承诺

缘份尽了 你别过头 如果还有什么 值得我逗留

我想是你 爱过我 只是路 无尽头 都是路过

什么感受 我能带走 眼泪可以不流 心碎不能救

看我能否得自由 当我松开你的手

一些风沙哽住眼眸 爱你最后一幕却模糊带过

不让疼痛有路追究 我不后悔我霭爱过

只是天涯从此寂寞 远去的渡口 彼岸的灯火

人在河流只许漂泊 我不后悔被你爱过

只是不能爱到最后 短暂的幸福 拥有就足够

只要舍得 就会快乐 会快乐

Oh god! I am so so sick of my job. Everything is so wrong!
The staff cant get leave or off day, wat they do? They take MC MC!! Very good and clever lo... We are so short of manpower, and we are the one kana all the rubbish from sicking cmtrs. All they know is to complain. FUCK la!! IF not happy den dun come to this branch. NOwadays, all the FUCKIN cmtrs are so hard to please, dunno wat they want. oh ya all they want is to complain.
The are so many auto machines out there, stupid u dunno how to use them den come in here like a mad dog anyhow bark! pls, if u need a bone i can get cisco bring u to the hawker and beg for bones if pple pity u- mad dog!
Pls think and pity us, WE ARE SHORT OF MANPOWER and we are the ones stay and suffer, and to get all the nonsense from u all (sicking cmtrs). "SICKING CTMRS pls put urself into our shoes." Everyone wants things to be done fast but We are human being with a pair of hands we need time to process things. Printing and typing takes time. Pls be more paitent and understanding or else u WILL be cursed!!! SO dun be an idiot cmtr so tht u will be cursed and get all the bad luck for the rest of ur life. Be more understanding and u'll be blessed!

早上，没事做扭开电视机，第八播道正在播放环珠格格3。尔康，紫薇，永琪，小燕子和晴儿。这些陌生又熟悉的名字勾起了我那段难忘的学生时代。记得，环珠格格1 播出时那时候的我还是个中学生。那时我和几个很要好的“好姐妹”经常模访戏里头的主角对话。我们好迷这部戏，简直是发疯似的。买这部戏的vcd 看通宵。，那时候, 生活是多么的悠闲, 无忧无虑. 吃饱就睡, 睡饱就吃。时间过的好快.. 不知过了几十个春夏秋冬. 所谓一寸光阴一寸金 , 寸金难买寸光阴.一转眼5年的时间就在不知不觉中飞逝了。哎。。。！现在的我在社会大学， “混”的好累哦！无论是工作,学业等等, 都让我精疲力尽, 很想放弃............ 小的时候, 真想快点长大. 但是现在成长了之后, 好想好想变回小朋友. 长大后多了些烦恼。 好烦噢。。。！ 人就是这么的矛盾。

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Congratulations MinLi jie!!!
祝福你们白头偕老。。。

On leave today, shook la tmr public holiday!! Hmm.. today went to Tampines IKEA MR WEE. We met up at tampines interchange den took a shuttle service.
Free Shuttle Service to IKEA Tampines-daily service from Tampines MRT Station or Bedok MRT Station to IKEA Tampines.

Approximate interval between each shuttle service is 30min, with 3 buses every hour.
Waiting time may vary due to traffic conditions.

Tampines MRT Station IKEA Tampines

Tampines MRT Station IKEA Tampines

First bus: 9.30am
Last bus: 9.30pm

IKEA Tampines Tampines MRT Station

First bus: 9.55am
Last bus: 11.30pm

Bedok MRT Station IKEA Tampines

Bedok MRT Station IKEA Tampines

First bus: 9.15am
Last bus: 9.30pm

IKEA Tampines Bedok MRT Station

First bus: 9.30am
Last bus: 11.30pm

why go there?
oh mr wee wanna try the chicken wings, we had lunch there.
this is the cafe



Do not have to carry the tray, just push it.. keke


we had these 3 dishes


Poached salmon ($6.50)
One of IKEA's signature dishes.


Swedish meatballs ($5.80)
The all-time favourite Swedish dish that has captured the stomachs of many people.



Best chicken wings



Large-giant storage


LOOK INSIDE!!!!!!!!!! tis huge cupboard!!


LOOK!! IT's MEEEEE.......



Last photo for the day

oh god!! Last week was a madness week. I took over remittance for another one more month and my Sicking officer dun let me have my leaves on the dates i want, and she just slog my leaves into her fucking convience dates for her to arrange. she told me there no more available dates cos all taken up my other collegues. FUCK HER la, IM damn pissed off with her.
Im damn stressed and tired! so is darling, he has endless reports and assignments, and i dunno how to cheer him up and help him cope with stres. neither can i cope my inn stress. STRESS!!!!!! I hate you! When will all these stress go away?
one week gone for school term break.. sigh. and I haven done any of my assignments yet. well... i think i need help I need to pull myself up and start to get works done, otherwise I will become more depressed. Darling just hang on and soon all these will be over. JIAYOU.. we both must!